As we go through darkness and become more positive, and suddenly there seems to be more shit coming up than ever- don't be afraid if it does. Because they have to come up in order for you to shed more light on it, things need to clear out, and they need to be acknowledge.
The process of loving yourself is ongoing, there are no shortcuts, you have to do the work in order to be more happy in life. It's your responsibility anyway, to feel happy and content. I'm so glad that my words of comfort and advice can help you, but believe it or not, I have been through deep shit and now I'm able to finally be more happy about myself and content in some degree. Sure there are things that bugged me and made my day a living hell, but that is something temporarily, and natural, because like a pendulum, our lives swayed from right to left, as a ball been throwing up needs to come down. Our feelings are reflection of our thoughts, the things that bugged me are things that help me to measure how far I have climb the ladder. How far in life I have come.
When you give a negative thought your attention, remember that you are able to switch it to a positive thought, because if you are able to give your thoughts your attention, it means you are more aware of what you think and when you are more aware of what you think, then it's easier for you to choose a better thought. If you struggle with that, then I can recommend you to seek out Louise L Hay, she has a lot of good affirmations you can use to change your negative thoughts to better and positive one.
Time is speeding up and the energy is increasing in frequency, things are likely to manifest faster. So it's up to you what you want to manifest. I do understand that it's not always easy to suddenly change your mindset, it takes me years before I can master it, and still I'm puzzled about it, because sometimes I feel that I'm in need of love and acceptance from the one I love. It's not easy to just be happy when you actually want things to be in some sort of way for your own benefit, but you can't always have what you want, so there are of course disappointment in it. You have to learn to forgive yourself when you are angry about yourself because you don't feel the way you think you should. Sometimes it's ok to feel what you feel. Express your feelings and don't blame yourself and even if you do, don't criticize yourself for it. Don't judge yourself and think you are a bad person for feeling in some certain way because you are afraid people won't accept or love you for reacting or expressing how you are feeling.
I do understand it's hard to explain sometimes why you feel the way you feel, but if you don't let out the steam, you will feel more horrible, because then you are locked inside a box you aren't able to get out of. I think it's more healthy to express your emotions/feelings than locked them inside, if you aren't able to tell the person who you have some sort of problems with, then you can try and talk about it with your friends or someone you know who is a good listener, some who doesn't judge what you have to tell, maybe they can give you another perspective you can look at so you won't be stuck in one way of thinking. There are many way of releasing those emotions, you just need to find a way that suits you the best.
For me, it helps to cry and write about it, or talking to my bestfriend who I know won't judge me for the way I'm feeling or thinking. She would tell me what I need to hear and be honest about it. I'm thankful for having her as my bestfriend. I think we all need one or two friends who is loyal to us and treat us with respect and don't judge us for being who we are. But to have those kind of friends we also need to be somewhat like that in order to attract them in our lives and we need to be a bestfriend for ourselves too, so that we can have a better and healthier relationship with ourselves.
I know sometimes you might think it's stupid for what you feel, but if someone talk about those feelings to you, would you think that they are stupid? Try to see and comfort yourself as your bestfriend would or better yet, see yourself as God sees you, He will likely see you as the innocent child of His. We all needs to see each other as souls, in order to maintain peace and harmony, that sometimes things happen for a reason, and we all do our best from the abilities we have. People don't always know why they are saying or doing what seems to harm others, forgive them, they know not what they do. Forgive yourself, for in God's eyes you are pure and innocent soul who are going through an evolution.
Take what you can from this post, but leave whatever that doesn't seems right for you, I don't intend to preach, because I don't think preaching will do any good if it doesn't come from the heart. Mostly, believe in yourself rather than believing in a truth that has been experienced by someone else. Sometimes experiences are somewhat different because we all have different perceptions and we all have different truth about something we believe in. Next time, if I have the inspiration, I will try and write about beliefs. Meanwhile, have a splendid weekend.
Blessings
Miracle.
