Love is The Cure

Beloved Heart,

Love is not painful or the illness. Fear is painful and Love is the cure. Share your love is an act of care. Begin by giving yourself as much love as possible, and while you're at it, share it with a knowning that you're not needy of love, but you needs love so you can share it with the people around you, whether it is with someone you love, your family, friends or even a stranger.

Selflove is not the kind of love that is arrogant or vanity, selflove is an act of confidence to see yourself as an individual. You are unique and there is only one of you.

How to love yourself? Well, I love myself as if I am my own best friend. When a friend is in need, you would take sometime to listen and comfort him/her, then why wouldn't you listen to yourself? To hear what your thoughts are telling you. To be more aware of the pain in your body. To take care of your feelings and not jugde or critizes your own thoughts, feelings and faults. To be conscious about the way you're treating yourself, so you can see it cleary how other are treating you. The way you view your life and how people treating you are how you think about yourself.

It's not always easy to be concious about what you think or feel. Sometime we may let people, situation chackles us down, and it's easy to blame them. Make them to be the source of your miserable. Do you feel like you don't have the power to change yourself or the situation, or maybe you want someone else to change so you will feel better? And maybe you think you're at fault, so you deserve to feel as you do and punish yourself for it?

That's ok too, the only way to get away from self-blame and blaming things from the outside, is to recognize the pain in our heart and tummy.

Well, I think, life is wonderful when you start to love yourself as if you are the number #1 in your life. Life treats me well when I begin to notice how I've been treating myself in the past and decide to change how I view myself and love myself more and more for each and every day. I'm learning to love and respect myself each and every single day. It's not easy, but patience is a virtue.

This is thanks to the Divine Guidance I've been reciving, but nothing would've happened if I didn't decide for myself that I want to change. To discover all the negative feelings and thoughts that was hidden inside of me was pretty tough at first, but it was a good way as well, because if I wasn't aware of them, I wouldn't know what I could do to change myself.

If you could choose, would you choose what's good for you or the opposite?

If I could choose, I would choose what's good for me. Because that's what I want. Happiness, peace, harmony, joy, abundance, love, safety, freedom, creativity and all the goods life can supply and gives to me.

And the fact is. I CAN CHOOSE! And if I CAN, YOU CAN TOO! No doubt about it. If everyone love themselves unconditionally war would never exsist. Who wants to fight, when they love themselves anyway.

It is up to you too choose, to create a good life, or make your life miserable. And when you're ready to let go, and please do it for yourself and for the people around you whom you insist to love - I'm sure you will get help. You're the only one who knows what is best for you.

I already know what is best for me, and that is, to let yourself decide what is best for you.

Much Love and Light,

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