This blog hasn't improved that much either since I haven't been active with it at all. I don't know when I stop to write entirely, but it seems like I have lost inspiration and even worst don't feel like writing.
The moment I become sentimental and reminiscing about my past love is the moment I listen to a good romantic song. I still think of her, even though the longing isn't that strong anymore. I learn to live without her in my life while I keep thinking if she would ever come back. The future is mysterious and exciting, I really wonder what would happen to me in the near future and if I would ever see her again.
Life, not something you would waste, but at times difficult to not wander of or be distracted. I thought about it and come to a conclusion. The whole time while I was trying to help people, I neglected myself. So this time around I will dedicate time to myself where I can replenish and practice what I have learn through reading self help books. There're so many things I need to improve. My soul, body and mind need to be balance. And I have to use this opportunity to do just that.
I'm not saying that helping people is a waste of time, but I think you have to be careful not to make them dependent in you for help each time there are problems. And watch out for those who take advantage of your kindness. Being compassion and help people in need are always a good thing, but setting boundaries are also another thing you have to remember to do if you face a person who doesn't want to help themselves.
I don't think it's a bad thing to think about yourself, because when you are in balance and accept that you need to give time to yourself, then helping others will come naturally. You will also be more joyful when you actually have more to give. Helping others shouldn't be an obligation, but rather a free choice, an act of kindness. Think about it for a moment, when you are force or being manipulated to help someone, wouldn't you resent yourself more afterwards? I know how it feel, because I have step on that path many times during my life, however I have learn from it and actually I'm more aware of how people treat me. I can notice when people are genuine towards me or not.
Enough said, I will certainly contemplate more about this topic and doing my best to write when I have the time to do so.
Life, not something you would waste, but at times difficult to not wander of or be distracted. I thought about it and come to a conclusion. The whole time while I was trying to help people, I neglected myself. So this time around I will dedicate time to myself where I can replenish and practice what I have learn through reading self help books. There're so many things I need to improve. My soul, body and mind need to be balance. And I have to use this opportunity to do just that.
I'm not saying that helping people is a waste of time, but I think you have to be careful not to make them dependent in you for help each time there are problems. And watch out for those who take advantage of your kindness. Being compassion and help people in need are always a good thing, but setting boundaries are also another thing you have to remember to do if you face a person who doesn't want to help themselves.
I don't think it's a bad thing to think about yourself, because when you are in balance and accept that you need to give time to yourself, then helping others will come naturally. You will also be more joyful when you actually have more to give. Helping others shouldn't be an obligation, but rather a free choice, an act of kindness. Think about it for a moment, when you are force or being manipulated to help someone, wouldn't you resent yourself more afterwards? I know how it feel, because I have step on that path many times during my life, however I have learn from it and actually I'm more aware of how people treat me. I can notice when people are genuine towards me or not.
Enough said, I will certainly contemplate more about this topic and doing my best to write when I have the time to do so.
